Shorter version: SLAP, work with helping your self, while the remainder shall follow.
I do believe Ankylosaurus at 6 makes some great points in addition to Dan’s.
You will need to find way to be less dedicated to these interactions through the beginning. Do not also contemplate it til you have met somebody in individual, and try to schedule that in person get together considerably faster (before days/walls of text have now been exchanged).
In addition such as the point produced in commentary that there is the opportunity you are goofing one thing up in your interactions, some slight misstep socially that would be partially in charge of your ghosting issue. You want someone to practice on, shoot me an email at lisadayrider at gmail, and I’d be happy to “play” a flirtatious online interaction out with you– and give you 100% honest thoughts if the vibes get weird/turn offy at any point if you think this is the case LW and.
Lastly– in the event that you think London dudes could be section of your condition, and work permits some travel freedom, maybe set your radius to a smaller sized city/community outside of London? I’m not sure if it will have impact that is much but possibly the “types” you match with is likely to be less fast paced, less ADD than what you are getting into the city.